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Mother's Day

   You're so complex are the words that ring in my head. They were spoken by family and confirmed by a friend. This was in response to gifts and birthdays. If you know anything about love languages then you will understand my top, and by top, I mean with a massive lead to all the others, is quality time. For me this entails actual sustained, though it can be for a short duration, intentional engaging with one another. Residing in the same home hardly touches this need, even beyond that neither does watching t.v. Let's be real who actually puts their phone down to do for more than minutes at a time anyway.  Needless to say, on this hallowed day set aside to bask in what is supposed love of those you have birthed the statement that began this account makes a bit more sense. It is also more significant because my birthday is regularly on, r near recognized date. So, here I sit, tossing the difficult mindset around, determining whether I will allow it to encompass my thoughts...